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How To! with Charles Duhigg

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You've got questions. We find answers. We all need advice, but it's not always clear who to ask. Each week, we invite a listener on the show to tackle a real problem, like protecting our elderly loved ones from scammers, emigrating as a throuple, and speaking without saying "um" - all with help from world-class experts: attorneys, doctors, entrepreneurs, authors, researchers - who actually know what they're talking about. Think of it as eavesdropping on someone else's therapy session, without the co-pay or awkward silence.

Latest episodes

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How to Argue With Your Spouse (And Stay In Love)

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Lauren and Carlos are afraid their marriage is at a breaking point. With Carlos out of work, an active toddler to care for, and another child on the way, Lauren and Carlo

Sep 22
26 min

How to Teach Your Kids Resilience

Is there a right way to let kids struggle and fail? How do you raise resilient children? And most important, when should you help out, and when should you chill out? We a

Sep 15
27 min

How To Run (Even When It's Painful)

Sophie Power once breastfed her newborn during an ultramarathon, but an upcoming 268-mile race across a remote stretch of Great Britain is freaking her out. We turn to Wi

Sep 8
29 min

How To Stop Worrying So Much

Matt has anxiety attacks. Every day. When he gets too many texts, when he starts worrying about his family, when the unexpected occurs—that’s when the sweat starts and hi

Sep 1
29 min

How To Sleep Better

Ben, also know as "Sleepless in San Francisco" hasn't been able to get a good night's rest for over a decade. He's tried noise machines, medication, vodka, even eating ch

Aug 25
24 min

How to Bounce Back From Injury

Jami's dealt with chronic knee instability and dislocations since childhood, two major surgeries, years of tedious rehab. Now she wants to actually trust her body again b

Aug 18
36 min

How to Improve Cyclists' Safety from Dangerous Non-Cyclists' Behavior

Amateur cyclist and university associate professor Wendy loves riding her bike with her young son and local road group, but aggressive drivers, close calls, and a deep-se

Aug 11
42 min

How To Stop Being an Emotional ATM

Last week, our expert Arthur Brooks gave us some surefire advice for resetting the parent-child relationship so your kids don't treat you like an emotional ATM. On this e

Aug 4
26 min

How to Get Your Kids to Take Good Risks

Today on How To!, Freddy, a physician, scientist, and father, struggles with how to mentor his 12-year-old daughter, who prefers her safe comfort zone and strongly resist

Jul 28
33 min

How to Feel Good in Your Clothes

Today on How To!, Michael, a retired FDNY captain who used to rely on a uniform every day, finds himself staring blankly into his closet and canceling dates because he do

Jul 21
34 min

How to Hire Someone and Be a Good Boss

Comedian and Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me! panelist Paula Poundstone splits her time among a grueling tour schedule and a chaotic home life, but she wants to find the focus

Jul 14
36 min

How To Keep Cool in a Crisis

Originally Aired on Oct 12, 2021 On this episode of How To!, the second in a two part-series, Dan Christensen, a bus driver in Portland, Oregon, and Matt Smith, a crisis

Jul 7
30 min

How Constraints Make Us More Creative

Ofra splits her time among a number of hobbies in her retirement, but she wants to stop feeling rudderless and find the focus necessary to write a book of observational h

Jun 30
33 min

Should I Choose Passion or a Stable Job?

India splits her time between contract production and agency work, but she wants to stop prioritizing other people's projects to scale her personal brand. Enter Simone St

Jun 23
38 min

How To Make New Friends as an Adult

Steven racks up acquaintances on group mountain bike rides, but he cannot turn a casual trailhead hello into a real friendship. For decades he coasted on the built-in con

Jun 16
32 min

Beating Yourself Up? The 10-Second Play That Outsmarts Your Inner Critic

This week we're sharing a special episode from our friends at Mentally Stronger with Therapist Amy Morin — the Webby Award–winning podcast hosted by psychotherapist and m

Jun 11
18 min

How To Ditch Your Distractions Once and For All

There's one thing that all of Helena's personal projects have in common: they remain unfinished. The family photo album is empty, as is her mom's recipe book. And the lav

Jun 9
31 min

How To Get Into Wine

Today on How To!, Ross, a TV director who enjoys a drink but feels intimidated by the pretension of the wine world, levels up his wine knowledge. Mike brings on journalis

Jun 2
33 min

How To Connect With An Audience

Guitarist and orchestrator Dillon Kondor knows his way around a stage. It's everything in between the songs that trips him up. Speaking to a crowd, filling the silence, n

May 26
32 min

How to Coach Your Kid

Brian stepped up to coach his 7-year-old daughter's soccer team to save their season, but there's one major catch: he's never actually played the sport. Now battling impo

May 19
35 min

Chart trend

Position in the How To chart (US), last 90 days.

#1
all-time peak
53
days in the top 3 since Nov 2024

Chart positions

Where How To! with Charles Duhigg ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 27, 2026).

#144 ▲ 5 Education US
#6 ▲ 1 How To US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I’m a huge Mike Pesca fan, and How To! has been a great addition to his work. I’ve enjoyed every episode so far. Pesca brings the same sharp interviewing skills, curiosity, and humor that make his other projects so good, and he manages to turn practical questions into insightful conversations. It’s informative, entertaining, and consistently well done. Highly recommended for anyone who enjoys smart, thoughtful interviews.

S. Jaeger · Mar 2026

Wow! When I say you will get something from every minute of this show, I mean it! My friend sent me the student loan episode and then I binged way back to the earliest episodes and loved them ALL!

NYClife2000 · Feb 2025

Stumbled across this podcast just looking for a new listen… one episode in and I’m hooked!! What an informative and comforting idea! I’ll be binging every episode. Thank you thank you thank you for what you do!!

Anna.Faye · Jan 2025

I really appreciate your episodes, esp. the one on coping with a forever child. There are so many aspects to the forever child. Acceptance is very hard, especially when your friends or podcasters joyfully talk about their freedom and their “new life”. In our case, our 22 year old was diagnosed last year with severe Borderline Personality Disorder and mild autism. She is vulnerable and can not be independent. It is not what was in our plan at all. So, although she did not grow up being a “forever child”, it still is nice to know that there are many more forever parents out there.

Tara - 12 · Oct 2024

Nothing against the podcast itself but moving to Portugal is not as easy as the guest implies. It took my family almost a year to get the proper paperwork, submit the papers, scheduling appointments, getting a lease in Portugal, etc … Also her comment about the ease in bringing your pet. Not so! It’s complicated and stressful if you don’t get your USDA certification within a week of your travel date. A more realistic expectation would be appreciated.

aloha_lisa · Jan 2025

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