The INFJ Whisperer

INFJs Are Real Jerks Before They Mature

INFJs take a long, long time to mature. Until that point, we end up doing foolish things that make us come across as jerks. It's just the way it is. Unfortunately for eve

INFJs Do Low Key Things To Show People They Care

INFJs don't like the idea of proving their love using big gestures. No writing our love in the sky or kissing on the big screen at the football game. It's the small every

INFJ Love Language - Info Dumping in Great Measure

INFJs are not sharing information with you to show off. That is not our intention. We do it to show our love. It is one of our love languages. Unusual, but true. Thank

How To Help an INFJ Who’s Moving Towards Self-Destruction?

It's hard to see an INFJ you love moving towards self-destruction, self-sabotage, and doom in such a clear fashion. But all you can do for them is be there when they call

INFJs, Here’s a Grounding Tool That Can Help in a Jiffy

INFJs spend too much time in their heads and not enough in their bodies. So that's why grounding tools like the one I speak about in this episode are so useful to us. Use

INFJs Prefer Informal Education To Formal - It’s Not About Recognition

INFJs want to spend all their time learning new information. We just love to learn. No matter if we get recognized for it or not, we want to learn about the subjects we c

INFJs Can Use This One Simple Tool To Prevent Social Battery Drain

INFJs need to learn that social battery drain is inevitable for them. Our social batteries are just so minuscule. So we need tools to deal with it, rather than bemoaning

INFJs Swing From Deep Empathy To Extreme Apathy All the Time

INFJs want to care about humanity and believe in their goodness. But then something happens that ruins and dashes our hope to the ground. And then we build up that hope a

INFJs - You Are on the Right Path and You Have Nothing To Worry About

I used to worry all the time (and sometimes still do) that I was not on the right path. But as an older INFJ, I want to tell everyone younger than me, that you ARE on the

Help, Help Everywhere, but INFJs Don’t See Any of It

One of the worst things INFJs do to themselves is believe they are all alone without any incoming help. It is the worst way we sabotage ourselves. We need to look up and

5 Reasons INFJs Wouldn’t Be Successful in an Apocalypse

As I said in the last episode, there are many reasons INFJs would be successful in an apocalypse, but it could all be undone in a moment because of our poor social skills

5 Reasons INFJs Would Survive an Apocalypse

So I have been thinking about whether I would survive a doomsday scenario if it happened. In some ways, I wouldn't (more on that in the next episode). But in some ways, I

INFJs Are Not Emotionally Courageous, Although Brave in Other Ways

INFJs have a hard time being vulnerable, more so than other types. We are so fearful of trusting others with our innermost thoughts and feelings. Essentially, we lack tha

INFJs Underestimate and Undervalue Themselves Compared to Others

INFJs have a lot more potential than others around them, but because we spend all our time in doubt and anxiety, we aren't able to achieve this potential. We undervalue o

Some Hacks To Make Your Obsessions Work for You Rather Than Against You, INFJs

INFJs sometimes feel like they are led around by their obsessions, but this hack I share in the episode will help you lead your obsessions instead. Let's get in the drive

INFJs, Direct Your Obsessions Towards Good

INFJs go through cycles or phases where they get obsessed with a certain item or situation and then lose interest after a while. We can direct this obsessive nature towar

INFJs Need To Create Systems for Success

INFJs spend a lot of their time in their heads, in their imagination, in their dream worlds. So they have to create systems and automate things, so they don't end up miss

INFJs Don’t Like It When People Covertly Try to Use Them

INFJs are quite aware when others are manipulating them, and that covert behavior is annoying to us. If you are going to use us, be direct and honest about it. Don't try

INFJs Love It When People Are Directly Rude and Antagonistic

INFJs don't know how to deal with people who are indirect, dishonest, or two-faced. We don't know if our intuition is telling us the truth about the person. So we would r

Why Do INFJs Tell So Many Little White Lies?

INFJs have difficulty telling the truth in certain situations because we worry about confrontations, arguments, or discussions. We don't want all that. It's easier someti