Danielle To You 's Podcast

by Danielle To You

I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too is a heartfelt podcast where I, Danielle To You, embrace the courage to be seen. Each episode offers “mirror moments”—raw, soulful reflections on my ongoing journey of healing, releasing past traumas, and rediscovering who I am. This is for Black women who’ve let pain shape their identity but are ready to gaze into their mirrors, confronting their truths with vulnerability and strength. With a direct, empathetic, and compassionate voice, I share my evolving story to inspire you to share yours, inviting you into a space where self-discovery and reflection spark profound healing. Together, we explore the power of seeing ourselves clearly and stepping boldly into who we’re becoming. I’ve realized that if I’m not all of me, I’m nothing—done hiding in the shadows, afraid to show my full self. All my mirrors matter, infinite reflections uniting my past, present, and future into one sacred truth. As a Black woman, I stand before these mirrors, honoring every facet—wounds, triumphs, ancestral wisdom, and dreams yet to unfold—to craft a reflection that’s wholly me. I invoke Black women to reflect in all their mirrors, to embrace the old, the new, the pain, and the power, knowing it’s all you. We refuse to enter spaces dimming our light, choosing instead to break the mirror of societal distortions and celebrate the infinite layers of our existence, where vulnerability and courage intertwine to redefine our worth. What makes this podcast unique? It’s my unfiltered bravery in laying bare my journey, creating a sacred sanctuary for Black women to reflect, release, and grow. In “mirror moments,” we shatter the lies of external narratives, weaving our stories to reflect our shared strength and ancestral resilience. This is a call to honor every dimension of our being—past, present, and future—and to craft reflections that radiate Infinite potential. Together, we build a space where our infinite mirrors liberate us, empowering us to redefine our worth as Black women. Subscribe to I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too for soul-stirring conversations that inspire us to heal, shine, and embrace our true selves.

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The Danger In Different ; The Porch That Watched Me Grow

Season 3 of I’m Talkin To You, I’m Talkin To Me Too continues the work of sitting with what still lives in the body. Some of us learned early that different could feel l

Jul 30
11 min

The Water I Choose to Be ; Soft Where I Was Stone

Season 3 of I’m Talkin To You , I’m Talkin To Me Too opens with the tension I live with every day. People see strength where I feel only fragility. I’ve had to become unb

Jul 4
6 min

My Soul Lets: Grieving Through Growth

In this episode, I sit with the ache of my soul letting go. I left the family I created, the mirrors I looked into every day, the ones that reflected the newlywed me, th

Mar 25
6 min

Charity With Strings:Predators Know Their Prey

On this episode grooming, power abuse, and the freeze response that kept me alive. The savior teacher who turns villain at night. The singer who sings in my ear. The one

Jan 21
7 min

Caged Bird’s Alchemy: My Song

In this episode, I explore the caged bird’s song, realizing my strength was never a choice but a survival instinct. People praise how I endure, but I never had options li

Nov 8 2025
6 min

Rooted in Resolve: My Mirror to Freedom

In this heartfelt episode of Season 2, I share the chaos of losing my business and money, raising three kids while terrified as a new manager. Then I met Desi, whose word

Oct 18 2025
6 min

Silent Boughs, Loud Heart: No Shade, Just Strength

In this opening to season two, I dive into the heart-wrenching night my ex-husband assaulted me in our home, ignoring my desperate pleas to stop as he forced himself on m

Oct 10 2025
10 min

From DC with Hate : A Seasons Truth

In this season finale, I dive deep into the soul-crushing betrayal that unfolded with DC, a friend I held close to my heart, whose whispered “I love you” turned into a ho

Aug 9 2025
8 min

My Store of Secrets : A Child’s Silent Scream & Surviving the Unseen

In this episode, I recount opening the door to sheriff’s officers as a child, facing eviction. We sat on the curb, desperately waiting for help.Later we moved to a dissem

Aug 5 2025
7 min

From Weakness to War :The Other Side of the Water

In this episode, I confront the anger that consumed me after giving birth, staring in the mirror at a woman who felt weak for not saying no , risking her baby’s life. I r

Jul 15 2025
10 min

From Ashes to Bloom: Sun After the Storm

In this episode, I unravel the storm of 2017, starting with my son’s birth by C-section, a fragile three pounds, fighting in the NICU until he passed at home in May. By J

Jul 8 2025
10 min

Waters of Loss: Birthing Truth in Isolation

In this deeply personal episode, I bare the unseen battle of birthing twins in a tub at home, a secret I’ve carried in silence. Discovering my pregnancy with lifeless tw

Jun 30 2025
11 min

War Within the Roots: Facing My Silent Struggle

In this episode, I wrestle with the parts of me no one sees the silent struggle of no motivation and paralysis when faced with choice. Rooted in past trauma, I’ve lived i

Jun 27 2025
13 min

Chasing Shadows: The Pain of Unseen Love

Today I pour into myself, choosing subtraction by addition, letting go of the parts that crave attention from those who overlook me, and finding strength in my own worth.

Jun 25 2025
8 min

Unfamiliar Peace: Saying Farewell to Chaos

I’m at war with myself, holding onto a life that doesn’t satisfy, where shame and anxiety grow when I ignore what I know. My therapist’s words bring back a rainy drive wi

Jun 20 2025
11 min

Kin and Concealment:The Lies That Shaped Me

On Father’s Day I reflect on the father who raised me, the father I lost, and the daughter I shield from my truth. Join me as I navigate family lore, betrayal, and the si

Jun 17 2025
9 min

Waves of Memory:Believing in Him, Learning to Trust Me

In this tender episode of I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too, I share a day drawn to the water, where a walk with a sandwich and a chocolate cookie sparked deep refl

Jun 16 2025
11 min

Wounds That Won’t Heal: Speaking to Survive

In this raw and powerful episode of I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too, I confront the pain of staying silent after surviving abuse. Triggered by a courtroom moment

Jun 11 2025
8 min

Three Hours to Nowhere: Trusting Myself Over Dates

In this heartfelt episode of I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too, I unpack why the thrill of dating has faded into a daunting task. As a single mom of three, the effo

Jun 11 2025
14 min

Empty Fridge, Full Heart: Neglecting Me, Loving Them

In this episode of I’m Talkin to You, I’m Talkin to Me Too, I confront the shame of neglecting myself when my kids are away. I preach to them about eating fruit and drink

Jun 10 2025
15 min