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Comedy Interviews · Ashley Gavin & Studio71

We're Having Gay Sex

by Ashley Gavin & Studio71

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

Latest episodes

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The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343

This episode is fascinating, listener! Kiel Tutin is a dancer, choreographer, and creative director who has been the visionary behind performances like BLACKPINK’s headli

Sep 28
1 h 13 min

Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342

This episode is WILD, listener! Madison Sinclair is a comedian, writer (Comedy Central’s Roasts of Kevin Hart, Whitney Cummings, and Bert Kreischer), and CEO of The Bumme

Sep 21
1 h 15 min

We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341

Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by

Sep 14
1 h 10 min

Amelia Montooth Prefers to Start Threeways Over Dinner | WHGS 340

This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with An

Sep 7
1 h 12 min

Edy Modica Has an “Understanding” With Her Boyfriend | WHGS 338

This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of t

Aug 31
1 h 06 min

Hannah Beck Escaped an Arranged Marriage Cult | WHGS 337

This episode is surviving a crazy childhood, listener! Hannah Beck is a hilarious queer Chicago-based comedian and podcaster that’s performing at the biggest venues acros

Aug 24
1 h 04 min

Maddie Wiener’s Official WHGS Farewell! | WHGS 337

Get tickets to Maddie’s LIVE special taping on 9/20 in NYC! It will be the funniest thing you’ve ever seen, and the entire WHGS crew will be there: 6pm - https://www.com

Aug 17
1 h 08 min

Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) Finds Hidden Booty on the Pacific Islands | WHGS 336

This episode is going on some kinky vacations, listener! Eliot Glazer is a delightful comedian, writer, actor, and the mind behind some of your favorite TV shows ever mad

Aug 10
1 h 10 min

Comedians on Couches Swapping Girlfriends (w/ Freddie Shanel, Camille Schmidt, Jen & Sam) | WHGS 335

This episode is doin’ group stuff, listener! It’s a WHGS first as we shove FIVE whole guests onto the pod — Hilarious non-binary comedian & JFL New Face Freddie Shanel, t

Aug 3
1 h 10 min

Kevin Atwater’s One Night Stand in an ACTUAL Haunted House… | WHGS 334

This episode is in the TWILIGHT ZONE, listener! Kevin Atwater is an incredible queer musician who has garnered millions of listens across TikTok and Spotify with his hone

Jul 27
1 h 01 min

Polyamory Will Save Your Relationships (w/ Neil Rubenstein) | WHGS 333

This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in th

Jul 20
1 h 06 min

Daylight: The Unlikely Secret for a Better Sex Life (w/ Caitlin Peluffo) | WHGS 332

Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin!

Jul 13
1 h 10 min

My GF (Jen Davis) and I Had a Relationship Ending Fight… | WHGS Ep. 331

This episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashle

Jul 6
1 h 08 min

Ali Kolbert’s Secret to Stopping Comphet | WHGS Ep. 330

This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode tod

Jun 29
1 h 01 min

Gen Z Doesn’t Know How to Kiss w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 329

This episode is smooching, listener! Beloved actor, comedian, writer, and friend Breanne Williamson RETURNS for the annual ASH-BRE CATCH-UP — and you best believe there i

Jun 22
1 h 03 min

Sabrina Wu’s WIERD Approach to Losing Their Queer Virginity | WHGS Ep. 328

(TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and a

Jun 15
1 h 07 min

Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327

This episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy

Jun 8
1 h 05 min

Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326

This episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in Americ

Jun 1
1 h 11 min

Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325

This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit singl

May 25
1 h 05 min

I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324

Get the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS. Ashley has just wrapped up

May 18
57 min

Chart trend

Position in the Comedy Interviews chart (US), last 90 days.

#39
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31
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

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#85 ▼ 8 Comedy Interviews US

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A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

This podcast has been on fire lately. The combination of FUNNY and THOUGHTFUL conversations is really coming through. About to go join the Patreon just to relisten to the uncut version of these episodes!

MsPatita · Apr 2026

Fun and funny but also can get unexpectedly deep. I love it and will end up listening to every episode eventually.

jo mccall · Feb 2026

I’ve been following this pod since the end of 2022. I mostly watch on YouTube and esp at the time, video podcasts were more rare. My fav Ashley lore is that she was the founding curriculum director for Girls Who Code. Now that video podcasts are standard in my head Ashley is an early adopter in her podcast work too. It’s been a comforting way I start my Mondays for some time now and i’m excited to keep watching and see what else Ashley cooks up

tired606 · Feb 2026

We’re Having Gay Sex is the podcast we need to bring humor and honestly to queer (and all) sex. Hilarious and raw, it’s hard to stop listening.

Calen Ann · Aug 2025

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