The Narcissists' Code - Podcast Rankings and reviews

Hi Lee! I am on my journey to healing from a turbulent 13 year relationship with a narcissist and your podcasts have given me the realization that I’m not crazy and have been verbally/emotionally abused through these years. I would love to hear an episode on narcissist always thinking the grass is greener whether in relationships, jobs, or life in general! Thanks for your willingness to always be real!

I don’t get the folks complaining that the show is just LH talking about himself like…that’s literally the entire plot of the podcast y’all. This beautiful man is doing us all the service of sharing his lived experience to help ease our suffering. He isn’t a therapist or a psychiatrist he’s a guy with NPD talking about it. There are other stellar options out there if you’re looking for a more academic or cerebral discussion of NPD abuse and recovery. Take what you like and leave the rest but leave my guy Lee alone thanks.

Coming back a month later to deduct a star because the ads are out of control. I understand one or two per episode but I shouldn’t be expected to endure half a dozen intrusive ads over the span of a 14-minute podcast. It’s jarring and excessive and defeats from the quality of the content.

I stumbled across your podcast looking to educate myself about malignant narcissists. Your podcast is easy to get into, easily broke down & 100% real! I would love for you to go into narcissistic people within extended family (IE; my daughter in law is one, so dealing with her is different than a romantic partner) anyway I’m learning a ton & will be looking into your workshops! Thanks Lee!!!

Lee…you have changed me forever. You explain behavior, manipulation, give answers to understand their “crazy “. Jeckall/Hyde I labeled it b4 narcissistic behavior was on the map. Sharing your journey is most extraordinary and it changes my perspective. I’m classic, no friends, no family, live in the country, his eyes do get black. Rants, rages, spits in face, has pushed me around, cheats, lies, he loves to watch me BURN. he is compassionate for all but for his wife He gets a buzz on a smear campaign, says terrible lies especially to my 83yr old mother. He does tell on himself when accusing me of whatever. His choke collar is tight and my leash is short. I can do nothing right. You help UNBLUR the lines he intentionally makes. I’ve learned so much. I had lived every experience you speak of, thank you for releasing my chains I put on that never helped. I’d like more help from the work shops etc you offer. I was a vibrant, happy, giving young women when I met him. I’m unhealthy, been sick for years, he wants a divorce and he has turned even nastier. I only get a random low allowance. If at all All the red flags. That’s my life ! I gave him all my pay to help build trust only that back fired and I don’t have access to my $$ nothing. I have nothing. Not even respect. You helped me realize what was and wasn’t “love” & not to ignore the truth I really am disposable. You ROCK ! Tess