#354: The Surprising Upsides of Self-Deception | Shankar Vedantam

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#354: The Surprising Upsides of Self-Deception | Shankar Vedantam

Anyone with a passing familiarity with Buddhism will know that “delusion” is rarely, if ever, mentioned in a positive way. In fact, the Buddha included delusion (aka: confusion about the way things really are) on his list of “the three poisons.” The whole point of meditation, per the Buddha, is to uproot delusion -- along with greed and hatred. Only then can you be enlightened.  My guest today is here to valiantly make the case that delusion -- or self-deception -- has an upside. Many upsides, in fact. While he concedes that self-deception can, of course, be massively harmful, he argues that it also plays a vital role in our success and wellbeing, and that it holds together friendships, marriages, and nations. Understanding this, he says, can make you happier, more effective, and -- crucially -- more empathetic with people with whom you disagree. Shankar Vedantam is the host of the popular podcast and radio show Hidden Brain. His new book is called Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain. In this conversation, we talk about: the many ways our brains filter and alter our perception of reality; why we evolved for a robust capacity to lie to ourselves; and how his research on delusions has colored his view of the chaos and confusion of our modern world. Are you excited about the upcoming Taming Anxiety Challenge? If so, you can download the Ten Percent Happier app today to get ready: Full Shownotes:

  • 16:45 “Most surprising thing about us is that we see ageing and death all around us yet we feel it won’t happen to us” - if we wallowed in the morbid we wouldn’t be very useful

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  • 12:00 if we performed a logical cost benefit analysis on our children we might conclude it’s not worth it. Self-deception is reason we are all alive today. Cheers @jane @Nick (@Jennifer @Alex-Denne)

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  • @Georgia-Pine on the subject of ways we deceive ourselves here are some benefits 💫

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  • Self-deception is so interesting, I find like ego it is actually essential n many ways despite also bringing with it a lot of flaws. Think Yuval Noah Harare would like this episode as talks to a lot of the “stories” that bind us together as humans

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    @sonrisaac saw your like this pod. What sort of things are you interested in?

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