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Kids & Family · Eli Bosnick, Thomas Smith, Tom Curry

Dear Old Dads

by Eli Bosnick, Thomas Smith, Tom Curry

Hey kids, get ON our lawn! Dear Old Dads is a podcast examining and deconstructing all things Dad. From parenting to patriarchy; manning the grill to manning up; Dear Old Dads asks — what even is a dad anyway? What does it mean to be a good man in today's world? What should it mean? Listen along as we definitely find the correct, concise answers to all these questions and more! Featuring Eli Bosnick, Thomas Smith, and Tom Curry.

Latest episodes

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DOD303: A Load-Bearing Fantasy

#12 trending · Kids & Family

Tom is alive and recovering! He'll be back soon. In the meantime, the glowing Lydia Smith fills in again. Remember the guy who realized his wife will never match his kink

Nov 6
49 min

Best of Tom: When Kids Protect Parents (DOD117)

The last Best of Tom for October is a March 2024 episode that's explicit, even for us. This is the full patron cut, so it ends with the after-show stories patrons got. It

Oct 30
57 min

Best of Tom: How Many Pots Have You Smoken (DOD75)

Best of Tom continues with Tom, the squarest man in podcasting, on kids and drugs. This is the full patron cut, so it ends with the Breckenridge edibles story we still br

Oct 28
1 h 13 min

Best of Tom: Family Vacations and the Snapping Turtle (DOD65)

Best of Tom continues with the episode the snapping turtle comes from. We've called that story back nearly thirty times since, and public listeners have never heard it: i

Oct 23
1 h 09 min

Best of Tom: Family, Wrong or Wrong (DOD58)

Best of Tom continues with the patron cut of a May 2023 episode, so if you're not a patron, there's a story at the end you've never heard. Every download helps keep Tom's

Oct 21
59 min

Best of Tom: The Car Wash Fight Club (December 2022 Bonus)

Best of Tom continues, and this one has never been on the public feed. It's a patron bonus from December 2022, and it holds the story we've called back more than any othe

Oct 16
1 h 07 min

Best of Tom: Are We Spoiling Our Kids? (DOD4)

Best of Tom continues. While Tom recovers, we're replaying his classic stories in order so the running jokes make sense, which means we're still in the early episodes, an

Oct 14
1 h 05 min

Best of Tom: How Do We Protect Our Kids From Bullies? (DOD3)

Best of Tom, part 2! While Tom recovers, we're replaying his classic stories in order. They're repeats, but each one is the extended patron cut, so if you're not a patron

Oct 9
1 h 14 min

Best of Tom: Get to Know the Dads (DOD1)

While Tom recovers, Dear Old Dads is on a break, so this month we're replaying the Best of Tom: a curated run of his classic stories, in order. These are repeats, and eac

Oct 7
1 h 10 min

Tom's Not Ok. We're Taking A Break.

Yeah so you kinda have to hand it to Tom's luck demon. It's undefeated. It has Tom fighting his own bones.

Oct 2
8 min

DOD302: Viced Rhino Transed All the Kids

Tom is out (spine goblin is at work today), so the dads are joined by YouTuber and dad-of-five Viced Rhino, who has a really good Tom impression. His family also stole th

Sep 25
39 min

DOD301: Lydia's Got Her Groove Back (Tom Does Not)

Tom is still in the hospital, so the dads are keeping it (relatively) mild this week. Joining Thomas and Eli is the one, the only Lydia Smith, honorary dad and apparent i

Sep 23
45 min

DOD300: She'll Do It If You Want To

Note: This episode was part of the double record while Tom was home from the hospital. As mentioned previously, he is currently back in the hospital and we wish him speed

Sep 18
45 min

DOD299: Tommy's Got Back (Problems)

Note: Since this episode recording, Tom has been readmitted to the hospital. He's been keeping folks updated in the Facebook group so join up there if you haven't yet! Lo

Sep 16
49 min

DOD298: The Enwrights Answer Everything (Including the Separate Houses Thing)

Note: this one was recorded the same day as the previous release, so mentions of Tom in the hospital are related to that time period! Heath and Anne join Thomas and Eli

Sep 11
46 min

DOD297: The Dead Speak! Somehow, Tom Returned

Tom is in the hospital, and it's not just his usual laziness. We don't think, anyway. Thomas and Eli play three voice memos Tom recorded from his hospital bed, including

Sep 4
32 min

DOD296: Give Your Baby a Whole Bottle of Cocaine

Eli reports back on Max's first night on Baby Adderall, and it went exactly as well as you'd expect. The dads then tackle a listener who is losing an argument with his pa

Aug 28
53 min

DOD295: Fight Me, Children

Eli comes back from a dad-friends vacation with a story about roughhousing, including a rare joyful moment for Max. Later, a Reddit dad gets benched from family time beca

Aug 21
44 min

DOD294: Hi Bored, We're Dad

The dads dive into a discussion about boredom, and what kind of responsibility you have as a parent to prevent or resolve it for your kids. And at the end, Tom gives a sn

Aug 14
49 min

DOD293: "My Partner Threw Something At Me and Our Son..."

After talking about AI and Tom's cat adoption journey, the dads turn to a concerning listener email that is asking the wrong question. Join the Facebook Group! facebook

Aug 12
40 min

Chart trend

Position in the Kids & Family chart (US), last 90 days.

#98
all-time peak
1
day in the top 100 since Jan 2025

Chart positions

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#98 NEW Kids & Family US

What listeners say

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A great show (at times) for positive masculinity; whether you’re a dad or not, you get a great discussion each episode. It’s made me examine how toxic I was brought up and basically I feel like Thomas’s dad and my own shared the exact same parenting styles. When the guys are good, they’re great! Holy cow the ads though! It’s nice they acknowledge it with the auto ads jokes, but still. Latest episode was 50 minutes, 12.5 was ads, so literally 1/4 of the total runtime was ads. Which given it’s a podcast with Thomas Smith is sadly to be expected, the dude is a great guy, but somehow has more ads than any other podcaster I’ve ever listened to.

BG45 · Jul 2026

Found this show through Cognitive Dissonance and I’m glad I came on over. I’m a mom but it’s nice to hear what goes on in the minds of dads. Often I find myself agreeing and I also have more empathy for my partner and how he navigates fatherhood. Also all three of the hosts are so funny together. Love the banter and the rapport and the laughter and jokes.

Caprimom · May 2026

I love listening to the conversations Thomas, Eli, and Tom have on this podcast. I’ll never have kids myself, but I still find myself eagerly waiting for the next episode of Dear Old Dads to be released. Hands down, this podcast is my favorite. RIP INTO IT!

OneTrueJASH · Sep 2025

This is my favorite podcast, I’m a dad and I relate to Tom a lot… sometimes so much I’m like “Am I Tom?!”. This show has made be a better dad, a better husband, and a better person. I recommend this show to everyone who will listen.

Jimillett · Jun 2025

I used to love this show, but the hosts are becoming more grating over time. Eli is the most annoying. His “bits” get played out way too far. He can turn a 10 second story into 10 minutes of bad voices and awful jokes. I think he makes up or exaggerates almost all of his stories. His fake laugh is also so annoying! That said, he can be one of the more insightful people on the pod. Tom also has super unhealthy, old fashioned beliefs to the point I don’t necessarily believe he is a feminist or even feminist friendly. He borders on manosphere tropes including “traditional” gender roles. Thomas is my favorite, but if you don’t know he has ADHD, you will because not an episode goes by of any of his podcasts where he doesn’t mention it. He also complains so much about the amount of work he does, even though it seems he’s offloaded a lot of it to his wife. As sad as I am to do it, I’ve reached to point where I’ll be unsubscribing and cancelling my Patreon.

tardigrade42 · Aug 2026

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